How big is this Fuck Up on a scale of 1-10

[Borracho]

Ok, thank God for annonimity. Me and my girlfriend go out. She is sort of white trashy, but I love her anyway. Her sister hates me, and she probably can't spell my last name, which is Walker. So I start buying everyone's drinks at this hideous dive, and make sure I am not left out. I do enough Jaeger Bombs to win World War II, and I am starting to fade out. She decides she wants to drive and I pass out in the car. Several hours later I wake up, I am in the car, I have no fucking clue where she is, so I put the car in gear and drive home -- 100 miles -- hey I live in Wyoming, that's a short commute.

Anyway, she comes out of the Flying J where she has been eating for the last 40 minutes, and socializing, and sees the vehicle gone. Its her home town, she has her parents, sister, friends etc., minutes away.

Ok, yeah, I know I was a dick, but how big of one for taking off when I woke up from a coma at a gas station and drove home. Personally, I think Michael Phelps is a Pussy, I did the 110 mile multiple drunken medlay for 90 minutes, and all I got was the couple of coldies left in my fridge. The downside is my girlfriend is still beating me over the head about this, even though she actually beats me over the head on a regular basis...

Ugh...

[Gin McGuinness]

I would gather her anger is geared not toward the fact that you left her where family could help her (embarrassing enough) but the fact that she can't trust you to even look for her and pay her the respect that you would a drunken mate who's disappeared. If anyone had done so to me, I would cross them off the contact list for good. 9

[Borracho]

You and she are fairly nearly on the same page. There is more to the story, but the fact that another woman has the same response is helpful, thanks...

[Borracho]

Addendum, I was so out of it when I woke up I did not remember how I got there. I woke up in my car, had no clue, and just drove home, I didn't know she was anywhere near. We were with her sister, and I thought she must have gone home with her, and I drove to the gas station to pass out myself. Still, I admit, I was a horses ass...

[Flemisch Lionesse]

well, to start with it is pretty much fucked up! You should have looked for the girl in the first place, never mind if had passed out before. This only shows a lack of consideration toward her...
How much you drink does not matter at all, this is my oppinion and I stick to it no matter what:
BOOZE IS NO EXCUSE!!!!!

[peetie44]

well, to start with it is pretty much fucked up! You should have looked for the girl in the first place, never mind if had passed out before. This only shows a lack of consideration toward her...
How much you drink does not matter at all, this is my oppinion and I stick to it no matter what:
BOOZE IS NO EXCUSE!!!!!

Believe me; she means it!

[mormonholocaust]

She should've left some sort of indication of where she was... a note on the dashboard, a text message, a message on your hand. Fuck, if she wanted to be considerate perhaps a bacon cheeseburger on the dash. Waking up after a strong black out, hung over, in a strange place causes fear in anyone. However, fundamentally, you're both adults, and you both fucked up by drinking and driving - every other fuck up which happened afterwards is minor in comparison.

If you must admit any wrong doing, I advise doing so if you can get her to admit it was a bad move to leave you alone in a gas station, completely uninformed of the situation. If this fails, threaten to post nudie pix of her on the internet.

EDIT:

Any notion of running around outside looking for someone may seem reasonable in a temperate climate; but it has to be recognized that in wyoming, in winter, that's a pretty tall order.

[Jaime]

3

[Flemisch Lionesse]

Believe me; she means it!

OH yes! you can be damn certain I do!!!

[Resident Asshole]

If it was me the first thing I would do is call my girl and ask what happened. But, if you didn't even know how the car got there I guess I could see thinking she got a ride.

[Drednik]

1 being not fucked up
10 being totally fucked up

Driving while drunk - 10 if you dont get that then there is no hope for you.
Running out on your girl - 2 or maybe 3 at a stretch. If your dating a drunk you need to expect that sort of shit if you dont its your own fualt really.

If your going to hurt someone do it intentionally thats what i always say.

[beerkegbilly]

Hey you let it slide and walk in to the gas station man then leaving her there dude

[DeeboCools]

I've read this story before but it just occured to me, Didn't you notice you were in the passenger seat? or were you in the back? that wouldn't make much sense.

Anyway, 7. I would be ashamed to have done that, but I would also forgive someone who had done it to me possibly.

[Lucky]

I dont understand the situation.
I always call all my girlfriends during and after my drunken passouts/blackouts.